Living in Jerusalem, Israel for nearly 20 years, has given me an opportuntity to learn so much about Middle Eastern culture
- often centered around a delicious meal, relaxed and eaten with of family and friends. Even the sulha (Arabic
for "table") represents an opportunity to eat a meal with your enemy and come to some kind of reconciliation. Here, past offenses
are discussed, hashed out, forgiven and forgotten - never to be brought up again. Wouldn't that be great if we could incorporate
that tradition on a larger scale?
Middle Eastern cooking is unique in that instead of 3-4 entrees, it often consists of many plates of a variety of foods
- as if to sample. This is quite satisfying and surpisingly filling. A selection of finely chopped fresh and roasted vegetables
as colorful salads, drizzled generously with olive oil and lemon juice, platters of of Kibbeh, felafel, and stuffed vegetables
round off the meal.
Often I will prefer to set out a meal such as this for my guests and family when they come over in the late afternoon
on the weekends, with large pitchers of lemonade and juices, satisfying on a hot and dry afternoon.
I Love to Feed People
It is a Middle Eastern thing to feed people copious amounts of food. I always prepare way too much food, enough to feed
a unit of hungry Israeli soldiers! Derek Prince once told me that it is in my blood, feeling the need to see people satiated
from my home-cooked dishes!
I was about 10 years old when I baked my first cake. I remember how everyone loved the cake and raved about it. It encouraged
me to continue trying out different recipes over the years.
At 18, I cooked a holiday meal for about 20 people. It was a thrill to be able to work hard cooking several dishes, but
more exciting, was watching my guests enjoy the food I had laboured over. Then I was brave enough to try cooking my first
Middle Eastern meal for a large crowd, and it was a great success.
Over the years, I heard stories of how my family members, who had immigrated to America from Damascus, Syria, had been
professional bakers and cooks. It helped to understand my love for cooking and my enjoyment of watching my guests enjoy my
cooking.